To Communicate with the child
  The first rule of communication of the parent with the child — making him the way he is, without conditions or requirements. The child must live with the feeling…

Continue reading →

Fitball for infants – 9 best exercises
  Active gymnastics from the cradle – is it possible? With fitball – Yes! Almost every modern mom has this simulator that performs several functions. This large gym ball helps…

Continue reading →

choice

First own room child

 

As said by Antoine de Saint-Exupery, all adults were once children but only few people remember it. When designing a kid’s room, remember what you were and what you wanted. And no matter how decorated your apartment in a modern style or a classic. The kid’s room should be a special place, no frills and stylistic frills. Because it would be his little world in which he and only he should be as comfortable as possible.

And let everyone believe that “blue is for boys, pink is for girls,” it is not necessary to follow such a stereotypical solutions.There are many colors that are well suited for creating a child’s room. Choosing colors for a more adult child, psychologists and designers are advised to follow the toddler temperament: energetic and active child will suit a bright, bold tones, for a calm pastel. It is possible, incidentally, to do and Vice versa – then the colors will help you adjust the character of the child. It is important not to overdo it with the amount of flowers: their should not be much.

The walls and ceiling it is advisable to paint in light, soothing colors that will not adversely impact on the vision of the child, and the furniture and toys may be vivid and eye-catching. By the way, the ceiling does not have to be white. You can use blending in with the Wallpaper light shades, decorating them, for example, Continue reading

Why kids can’t hear us or don’t want to hear?

 

“I told him 10 times already said – and he is “zero” reactions! Did you even hear me?” Sometimes, parents may infuriate the situation when the child ignores their requests, pretends he can’t hear, don’t do so, as requested by parents. He quietly continues its exciting activities, or Vice versa protesting, rebelling and doing the opposite. Options child on our statements can be varied, but a rebuke of parents one – he does not want me to listen, I have the feeling that me he never hears!

Why is this happening? Because a little child is not making plans on how to kill their parents, to teach them a lesson, and educate. His reactions are more like an automatic reaction, a reflection of our relationship with him. And if the child cannot hear you, it is a litmus test, showing that you exist at different wavelengths with their child that the cooperative relationship between us.

And that could serve this. We would like to enumerate the reasons that lead to this result:

The most harmless and easily correctable option, when the child really cannot hear you due to the fact that immersed in the game state, in the world of fantasy . He is so fascinated by this that wafting voice is just not seen. Generally, the child’s play is better not to interrupt, without special occasion. But if the occasion is really important, first make sure that Continue reading

Children should love their parents?

 

«Children must love their parents. They’ll only love their children» — write about it often. And you — do you agree? Children should love their parents? Here are a few stories from the life: what do you think about them?

… Father and mother raised three sons. They are all different, but they have in common is reverence to parents: all of them, with their families, are constantly coming to my parents. One of them’s wife (daughter in law) even jealous of mother (in-law).

… Children grew up in a prosperous family, was educated, but once “stood up”, I forgot about your parents – do not write, do not call, do not come.

… adopted child in the family who knows about her mother, deprived of parental rights because of alcoholism. In no need, his love. But he often calls me mother (biological), just to hear her voice, though she knew not want.

… the Children grow up in a “dysfunctional” family, was subjected to physical and moral humiliation. The parents are deprived of parental rights and children sent to the orphanage. Now they still love their mom and dad and waiting for each to visit them.

… the woman had three girls from different men. The girls grew up and went away Continue reading