Parents and divorce: how to behave after a divorce?
The divorce process is over. Financial problems are solved, begins a new daily life. Each parent now has the right to their privacy. Some people condone divorce quickly, others get…

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Childhood fears
  According to research, every second child in a particular age experiencing fears. Most often it affects children from two to nine years. At this age the child already sees…

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What to do with the child during the summer?


Here’s the long-awaited summer vacation for our children and we are faced with the problem of what to do with them at such a serious time? Of course, the simplest solution of the matter will be sending children to summer camp, family trip to the coast or a cottage with her grandmother. And what about those who are forced to spend the summer in the city? Let’s think about how to diversify leisure of the child.

Sandbox . Walking need not only the child but also to ourselves. And in order to combine business with pleasure and allow yourself to read a book quietly, walking with a child, just take to the street with a bottle of water. Why? It’s very simple. First, the child sitting in the sandbox can pour water from the molds in the mold, adding the sand full of happiness. And when the water runs out, the sand in the sandbox will become wet and the child will be able to build houses, play in the middle of nowhere and molds. Stained – not terrible, can be washed, but the baby will be busy for some time.

Modeling . To sculpt from clay loved by all children. Put it on the child apron, cover the table with old paper, let the baby in the hands of clay, and special facilities for modeling: Continue reading

Playing who’s your baby?


Who prefers to play your child is with their peers, with adults, with children older or with kids?

Of course, there are sociable children who are easy to contact with all age groups and successful in almost any situations. But such children are few, and they still have their own preferences. If this description applies to your child, you can only envy — your child is endowed with the so-called social intelligence (the ability to understand and predict the behavior of people, to notice and correctly interpret the details of human communication) and has no serious internal conflicts. Most likely, he is quite emotionally stable, have positive attitudes to the surrounding world and people.

Most children prefer to play with their peers. This is quite natural, as the level of development is roughly on the same level and interests often coincide. This choice is also supported by modern practice of kindergarten, where the child communicates primarily only in their group, which contains his peers.

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The Spoiled child in the first year of life


This question comes from parents already in the first few weeks, if the baby is fussy between feedings, instead of sleep. If you put him in the crib, it all starts over again. But you should not worry. To spoil a baby in the first 6 months is very difficult. It’s possible that the kid just doesn’t feel well.

If you’re afraid to spoil the child, keep in mind that it depends on the lessons that the child learns in the first months of life. It is unlikely that he at this age already had hoped that his slightest wishes will be fulfilled around the clock. And therein lies the spoiling. We know that infants are not able to predict the future. They live only for today. So they can’t form the thought thus: “Now I’ll give them a merry life and will scream until, until they give me everything I want”.

The main thing that kids learn at this age is a General feeling of trust (or distrust) towards the world. If their desires are fulfilled quickly and with love, they feel that this world is not such a bad place. Prominent psychiatrist Erik Erikson believed that this feeling of trust is at the core of the child’s character. So the question, Continue reading