Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in other countries. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store, no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What we consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, – it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
Amazing result? Actually, the education of the individual in Japanese society is constructed so that Continue reading
And what are the fears caused by the aggression of the child?
As you know, fear in children is a frequent phenomenon. But I didn’t expect that my child will have so clearly expressed anger, aggression in relation to everything around him.
In the subconscious of children are imprinted repetitive, stirring, causing turbulent emotions, the actions, moods that surround it, especially the habits of the parents. Not only behavior, but also adults who have influence in the process of education, training, communication, eats into nature, creating a personality. So in my articles under the concepts of father, mother, one should bear in mind not necessarily blood relatives, and those adults who had an influence in my childhood. Which can be not only a stepfather, stepmother, grandfather, grandmother, and aunt, a teacher in an orphanage and etc.
Complexes that affect so much in my entire life, from childhood, are from the subconscious. Quarrels and conflicts, various aggressive manifestations, is actually not happen because of those little things that are supposedly the cause, but because of unconscious internal hostility that parents were able to sow in kids. Children are shown outside of the parent complexes, fears that they fit into the character of children. Parents have to face Continue reading
Here’s the long-awaited summer vacation for our children and we are faced with the problem of what to do with them at such a serious time? Of course, the simplest solution of the matter will be sending children to summer camp, family trip to the coast or a cottage with her grandmother. And what about those who are forced to spend the summer in the city? Let’s think about how to diversify leisure of the child.
Sandbox . Walking need not only the child but also to ourselves. And in order to combine business with pleasure and allow yourself to read a book quietly, walking with a child, just take to the street with a bottle of water. Why? It’s very simple. First, the child sitting in the sandbox can pour water from the molds in the mold, adding the sand full of happiness. And when the water runs out, the sand in the sandbox will become wet and the child will be able to build houses, play in the middle of nowhere and molds. Stained – not terrible, can be washed, but the baby will be busy for some time.
Modeling . To sculpt from clay loved by all children. Put it on the child apron, cover the table with old paper, let the baby in the hands of clay, and special facilities for modeling: Continue reading