You suddenly feel that what your child says is far from the truth. How to recognize harmless whether it’s fantasy or outright lies, for which there is a reluctance to tell you the truth, and what to do in such cases:
To identify lying or fantasizing your kid, not an easy task. Remember the story of Nikolay Nosov’s “the Dreamers”. Two boys sit on a bench and tell each other stories about bitten off by a shark head and flying to the moon. There’s a new hero, hearing their conversation, said no good on their fantasies, no. And told his story about how he was yesterday, having eaten half a tin of jam, pinned it on his sister, resulting in the mother punished her, and gave him an extra portion of sweet. Border of lies and fantasy is obvious.
Why child fantasizes?
It is we adults believe that the world is reality, the truth of life. The child’s relationship with the world that surrounds them – are different. A world in which the baby lives, filled not only real, but also fabulous events. Children dream to try on the role of a magician, and therefore fantasize. Don’t stop baby, unleash children’s imagination. It is useful for its development.
As a rule, children begin to invent in 3-4 years, and 5-6 is already struggling fantasize. They believe in good and evil wizards. They believe Continue reading
Summer — time, excellent in many respects. The heat don’t need to put the piles of clothes before heading out. No children’s classes and, therefore, irrelevant logistics associated with the delivery. Like, everything is easier than in another season. But to say that no difficulty no, impossible. Today let’s talk about the children and try to understand exactly what a summer vacation is best like your child?
Than to occupy the child: lack of social experiences
In the country, at sea, in the village usually we deal with a lot of impressions associated with nature. And for the child, for its development are important, of course. Most children love to swim, sunbathe, sit on the grass, watching the sun or animals. Children growing up in the city, not enough of these simple events.
But it takes a week or two, and the mother begins to notice that the baby is not so immersed in all these lovely summer classes. He may become more cranky or demanding to ask them again, as in the city, constantly engaged and entertained him.
This behavior is likely due to the fact that a child is the lack Continue reading
This question comes from parents already in the first few weeks, if the baby is fussy between feedings, instead of sleep. If you put him in the crib, it all starts over again. But you should not worry. To spoil a baby in the first 6 months is very difficult. It’s possible that the kid just doesn’t feel well.
If you’re afraid to spoil the child, keep in mind that it depends on the lessons that the child learns in the first months of life. It is unlikely that he at this age already had hoped that his slightest wishes will be fulfilled around the clock. And therein lies the spoiling. We know that infants are not able to predict the future. They live only for today. So they can’t form the thought thus: “Now I’ll give them a merry life and will scream until, until they give me everything I want”.
The main thing that kids learn at this age is a General feeling of trust (or distrust) towards the world. If their desires are fulfilled quickly and with love, they feel that this world is not such a bad place. Prominent psychiatrist Erik Erikson believed that this feeling of trust is at the core of the child’s character. So the question, Continue reading