MOM, I'm SCARED! When your child drives you crazy
MOM, I'M SCARED! I was standing near the escalator and suddenly noticed a young mother who tried to force her daughter to stand on a moving stage. The child, who…

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Why kids can't hear us or don't want to hear?
  "I told him 10 times already said – and he is "zero" reactions! Did you even hear me?" Sometimes, parents may infuriate the situation when the child ignores their…

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Children should love their parents?

 

«Children must love their parents. They’ll only love their children» — write about it often. And you — do you agree? Children should love their parents? Here are a few stories from the life: what do you think about them?

… Father and mother raised three sons. They are all different, but they have in common is reverence to parents: all of them, with their families, are constantly coming to my parents. One of them’s wife (daughter in law) even jealous of mother (in-law).

… Children grew up in a prosperous family, was educated, but once “stood up”, I forgot about your parents – do not write, do not call, do not come.

… adopted child in the family who knows about her mother, deprived of parental rights because of alcoholism. In no need, his love. But he often calls me mother (biological), just to hear her voice, though she knew not want.

… the Children grow up in a “dysfunctional” family, was subjected to physical and moral humiliation. The parents are deprived of parental rights and children sent to the orphanage. Now they still love their mom and dad and waiting for each to visit them.

… the woman had three girls from different men. The girls grew up and went away Continue reading

Lying or fantasizing?

You suddenly feel that what your child says is far from the truth. How to recognize harmless whether it’s fantasy or outright lies, for which there is a reluctance to tell you the truth, and what to do in such cases:

To identify lying or fantasizing your kid, not an easy task. Remember the story of Nikolay Nosov’s “the Dreamers”. Two boys sit on a bench and tell each other stories about bitten off by a shark head and flying to the moon. There’s a new hero, hearing their conversation, said no good on their fantasies, no. And told his story about how he was yesterday, having eaten half a tin of jam, pinned it on his sister, resulting in the mother punished her, and gave him an extra portion of sweet. Border of lies and fantasy is obvious.

Why child fantasizes?

It is we adults believe that the world is reality, the truth of life. The child’s relationship with the world that surrounds them – are different. A world in which the baby lives, filled not only real, but also fabulous events. Children dream to try on the role of a magician, and therefore fantasize. Don’t stop baby, unleash children’s imagination. It is useful for its development.

As a rule, children begin to invent in 3-4 years, and 5-6 is already struggling fantasize. They believe in good and evil wizards. They believe Continue reading

Job description for foster parents

 

The President of Russia Vladimir Putin instructed the government to study the issues on the establishment at the Federal level requirements to activity “professional” of foster families, medical, pedagogical, psychological, legal support of the families who took education children-orphans and children left without parental care, families raising children with disabilities.

This question was included in published on 18 April, the list of orders of the President of Russia following the results of the first conference of the Russian popular front on the theme of “Building social justice”, which took place on 29 March in Rostov-on-don.

As commented “Komiinform” head of the Department of custody and guardianship of the Agency for Saraswati in the city of Syktyvkar Natalia Masterkova, there is no doubt that such requirements must exist, the activities of foster families, she said, must be regulated.

First, you need to determine what criteria we can assess the effectiveness of family care of foster parents to the guardianship could assess the level of social adaptation of children in the family, their socialization Continue reading