“I told him 10 times already said – and he is “zero” reactions! Did you even hear me?” Sometimes, parents may infuriate the situation when the child ignores their requests, pretends he can’t hear, don’t do so, as requested by parents. He quietly continues its exciting activities, or Vice versa protesting, rebelling and doing the opposite. Options child on our statements can be varied, but a rebuke of parents one – he does not want me to listen, I have the feeling that me he never hears!
Why is this happening? Because a little child is not making plans on how to kill their parents, to teach them a lesson, and educate. His reactions are more like an automatic reaction, a reflection of our relationship with him. And if the child cannot hear you, it is a litmus test, showing that you exist at different wavelengths with their child that the cooperative relationship between us.
And that could serve this. We would like to enumerate the reasons that lead to this result:
The most harmless and easily correctable option, when the child really cannot hear you due to the fact that immersed in the game state, in the world of fantasy . He is so fascinated by this that wafting voice is just not seen. Generally, the child’s play is better not to interrupt, without special occasion. But if the occasion is really important, first make sure that Continue reading
«Children must love their parents. They’ll only love their children» — write about it often. And you — do you agree? Children should love their parents? Here are a few stories from the life: what do you think about them?
… Father and mother raised three sons. They are all different, but they have in common is reverence to parents: all of them, with their families, are constantly coming to my parents. One of them’s wife (daughter in law) even jealous of mother (in-law).
… Children grew up in a prosperous family, was educated, but once “stood up”, I forgot about your parents – do not write, do not call, do not come.
… adopted child in the family who knows about her mother, deprived of parental rights because of alcoholism. In no need, his love. But he often calls me mother (biological), just to hear her voice, though she knew not want.
… the Children grow up in a “dysfunctional” family, was subjected to physical and moral humiliation. The parents are deprived of parental rights and children sent to the orphanage. Now they still love their mom and dad and waiting for each to visit them.
… the woman had three girls from different men. The girls grew up and went away Continue reading
Here’s the long-awaited summer vacation for our children and we are faced with the problem of what to do with them at such a serious time? Of course, the simplest solution of the matter will be sending children to summer camp, family trip to the coast or a cottage with her grandmother. And what about those who are forced to spend the summer in the city? Let’s think about how to diversify leisure of the child.
Sandbox . Walking need not only the child but also to ourselves. And in order to combine business with pleasure and allow yourself to read a book quietly, walking with a child, just take to the street with a bottle of water. Why? It’s very simple. First, the child sitting in the sandbox can pour water from the molds in the mold, adding the sand full of happiness. And when the water runs out, the sand in the sandbox will become wet and the child will be able to build houses, play in the middle of nowhere and molds. Stained – not terrible, can be washed, but the baby will be busy for some time.
Modeling . To sculpt from clay loved by all children. Put it on the child apron, cover the table with old paper, let the baby in the hands of clay, and special facilities for modeling: Continue reading