If the child does not hear You
  One my client once complained: “I was bored parrot! I can have 15 times to speak to his son: turn off the TV, put the shoes in place, take…

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Fitball for infants – 9 best exercises
  Active gymnastics from the cradle – is it possible? With fitball – Yes! Almost every modern mom has this simulator that performs several functions. This large gym ball helps…

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How to develop personality in the period of preschool age? (from 3 years to school entry)?

The assimilation of moral norms. Three age stage of personal development of children in preschool childhood, their relationship with the formation of different aspects of the personality of the child. The role of communication in personality development of the preschooler. To teach preschool children the norms and forms of behaviour. The value of role-playing games with the rules for the personal development of children. The emergence of moral self-regulation of behavior, the Transition to automated forms of moral behavior. The manifestation of the moral qualities of the person in communication.

Child’s awareness of the fact that its success depends not only on ability and efforts. The formation needs in achieving success. The emergence of the hierarchy of motives and their volitional control.

The formation of the basic personal qualities of a preschool child. The concept of the basic qualities of a child’s personality, their origin.

Relationship is the development of basic personal qualities from an early age. The emergence of “internal position” at the preschool. The emergence of self-consciousness Continue reading

Children should love their parents?

 

«Children must love their parents. They’ll only love their children» — write about it often. And you — do you agree? Children should love their parents? Here are a few stories from the life: what do you think about them?

… Father and mother raised three sons. They are all different, but they have in common is reverence to parents: all of them, with their families, are constantly coming to my parents. One of them’s wife (daughter in law) even jealous of mother (in-law).

… Children grew up in a prosperous family, was educated, but once “stood up”, I forgot about your parents – do not write, do not call, do not come.

… adopted child in the family who knows about her mother, deprived of parental rights because of alcoholism. In no need, his love. But he often calls me mother (biological), just to hear her voice, though she knew not want.

… the Children grow up in a “dysfunctional” family, was subjected to physical and moral humiliation. The parents are deprived of parental rights and children sent to the orphanage. Now they still love their mom and dad and waiting for each to visit them.

… the woman had three girls from different men. The girls grew up and went away Continue reading

Children’s fear

 

And what are the fears caused by the aggression of the child?

As you know, fear in children is a frequent phenomenon. But I didn’t expect that my child will have so clearly expressed anger, aggression in relation to everything around him.

In the subconscious of children are imprinted repetitive, stirring, causing turbulent emotions, the actions, moods that surround it, especially the habits of the parents. Not only behavior, but also adults who have influence in the process of education, training, communication, eats into nature, creating a personality. So in my articles under the concepts of father, mother, one should bear in mind not necessarily blood relatives, and those adults who had an influence in my childhood. Which can be not only a stepfather, stepmother, grandfather, grandmother, and aunt, a teacher in an orphanage and etc.

Complexes that affect so much in my entire life, from childhood, are from the subconscious. Quarrels and conflicts, various aggressive manifestations, is actually not happen because of those little things that are supposedly the cause, but because of unconscious internal hostility that parents were able to sow in kids. Children are shown outside of the parent complexes, fears that they fit into the character of children. Parents have to face Continue reading