If the child does not want to learn, it is useless to push, to force and to swear – that you only detach themselves from it, will become his enemy. You first need to understand why all this is happening in your family: why the child does not want to study and why you so passionately desire.
– My idiot alone two wears. Don’t know what to do with it. Mind alone toys computer. Already limited it access – is not helping. Was talking to him. “I’m not interested, – says, – I don’t understand”.
Yes, this is a problem for many parents. They want to see their child ’ s…well why Einstein? – this is not necessary. Even if the Institute will go”. They want it to be “no worse than average” or “at least above average” or “best”.
Well, let’s sort things out. Tell me, why you need all this? Maybe this is a stupid question, and it’s so natural to want. …But still, try to answer it. Ask yourself: “Why would I want my child was a good student?”
We all know that the very Einstein studied is not so hot. And for sure, many people know of the examples of very happy and lucky people who have not studied well. Conversely, there are many examples of instances Continue reading
You suddenly feel that what your child says is far from the truth. How to recognize harmless whether it’s fantasy or outright lies, for which there is a reluctance to tell you the truth, and what to do in such cases:
To identify lying or fantasizing your kid, not an easy task. Remember the story of Nikolay Nosov’s “the Dreamers”. Two boys sit on a bench and tell each other stories about bitten off by a shark head and flying to the moon. There’s a new hero, hearing their conversation, said no good on their fantasies, no. And told his story about how he was yesterday, having eaten half a tin of jam, pinned it on his sister, resulting in the mother punished her, and gave him an extra portion of sweet. Border of lies and fantasy is obvious.
Why child fantasizes?
It is we adults believe that the world is reality, the truth of life. The child’s relationship with the world that surrounds them – are different. A world in which the baby lives, filled not only real, but also fabulous events. Children dream to try on the role of a magician, and therefore fantasize. Don’t stop baby, unleash children’s imagination. It is useful for its development.
As a rule, children begin to invent in 3-4 years, and 5-6 is already struggling fantasize. They believe in good and evil wizards. They believe Continue reading
A little background. Recently my eldest — Rose — was 6 years old. We invited the kids to visit and planned a small quest based on the “Legends of chima”. But alas, the day before the event revealed that the boy had contracted enterovirus. Rose upset — a holiday that he waited so long, had to cancel. I, as you know, upset that he was upset.
And just the day before my birthday I received the book the ASI Wanjinas “iceberg on the carpet, or what to play with the child?”. A collection of games ASI with her son Axes. Read and prosmatrivala (there are great pictures, very visual), and by the evening I already had a plan ready sea adventures of our family team. And what! With the battle fleet against the octopus, rescue animals from the ice, the Northern lights, building igloos out of snow(!) in the Northern seas and a happy arrival in South. In short, the holiday was saved, all the viruses out of spite.
Thumbing through “iceberg on the carpet”, I had mixed feelings of admiration and sadness. Admiration, because ideas games — awesome! Diverse, original, exciting. Read and wonder.
Sadness — because I’m a quarter of Asinou there is no fantasy in my games with the kids. Continue reading