Education of the individual in Japan is very different from traditional education in other countries. Those rude phrases, which are easy to hear on our playgrounds: “you’re bad”, “now I will punish you” it is impossible to imagine there. Even if the little Japanese boy would fight with my mother or felt-tip pen to draw on the white door of the store, no strict punishments and reprimands will not follow. Up to 5-6 years old child here everything is allowed. Such liberal tradition of educating absolutely not fit into our ideas about how to raise children.
The basis of education in Japanese society is a tolerant and friendly attitude to a young child. Such permissiveness in childhood, adult Japanese citizens are law-abiding and ability to live by the interests of the team and company.
What we consider minor offences: beer behind the wheel, a conflict with a fight on holiday, journey on forbidding signal of a traffic light, – it is impossible for Japanese. To live is required by the rules. Break the rules (“losing face”). That in Japan, children are taught from early childhood, is the basis of education.
Amazing result? Actually, the education of the individual in Japanese society is constructed so that Continue reading
At the same time facing the two of semidentata; parent after divorce and child-teenager. You are after divorce don’t want to be anyone but yourself and don’t know who You are, and Your grown-up to adolescence and adolescence the child is in the same condition: he didn’t want to be anyone but himself, but he still doesn’t know who he is.
And if You’ve made it through my adolescence and the search itself, that boys and girls are bombarded by a huge stream of brand new information of various kinds and levels. The child is not certain at all: the day before yesterday Tanya was a friend, and today on its kind blush ears, a constant feeling of instability all at once, instability, instability, and increase loading… and then… BAM. The divorce of parents.
And boys and girls in tooooon age begin to suffer complexes: it is too high, then too low, then very thin, the Breasts grew before anyone else. Children are afraid to be different and to be yourself. Mistrust and suspicion – the main satellites of children at this age, the constant anxiety and shyness – fear to do wrong or to lose yourself (again and again there is this fear), or be excluded from the “flock”. Continue reading
Throughout the school year, some parents are thinking about how to diversify leisure of his child, picking up interesting Hobbies, attending extra classes, cultural groups and sports clubs. But particularly acute a question of finding a circle or section for the child gets up during the summer holidays, when children receive a lot of free time, to hold that the parents simply do not have enough time and effort. While mom and dad continue to go to work, children spend the whole day at the computer, in front of the TV and the refrigerator, where the same without him. And as a result of three months of summer the children are only impressions from a three-week vacation spent with his parents, as well as impaired vision, spine and stomach. That this did not happen, program planning for the summer should be approached responsibly. And to help parents in this matter may be varied educational groups for children who work all year round and are stepping up their activities during the school holidays.
Clubs for kids allow students to communicate with each other, make new friends, develop in children the skills and ability to work in a team. In addition, any classes taught children discipline. And since it’s not school, and assessments do not put here for omissions and not abused, Continue reading